{"id":272200,"date":"2019-04-30T15:22:03","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T21:22:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1036988"},"modified":"2019-04-30T15:22:03","modified_gmt":"2019-04-30T21:22:03","slug":"rascal-flatts-member-jay-demarcus-reveals-he-placed-daughter-for-adoption","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/music-news\/rascal-flatts-member-jay-demarcus-reveals-he-placed-daughter-for-adoption\/","title":{"rendered":"Rascal Flatts Member Jay DeMarcus Reveals He Placed Daughter for Adoption"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"block-0-img\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"31\">\n<div class=\"post-content__image\" readability=\"32\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2019330\/rs_1024x759-190430133428-1024-jay-demarcus.cm.43019.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" border=\"0\" title=\"Jay DeMarcus\" alt=\"Jay DeMarcus\" data-width=\"1024\" data-height=\"759\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Rick Diamond\/Getty Images for Innovation In Music Awards<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photo-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"44.616840113529\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"29.744560075686\">\n<p><strong>Jay DeMarcus<\/strong> is opening up about his decision to put his first daughter up for adoption.<\/p>\n<p>The&nbsp;<strong>Rascal Flatts<\/strong>&nbsp;artist is detailing the ups and downs of his life in his new memoir&nbsp;<em>Shotgun Angels: My Story of Broken Roads and Unshakeable Hope<\/em>. In the book, which was released on April 30, the bassist reveals&nbsp;that he has fathered not two children, but three.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/people.com\/country\/rascal-flatts-jay-demarcus-daughter-adoption-memoir-shotgun-angels\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">According<\/a> to <em>People<\/em>, the artist shares that many years ago, when he&nbsp;was in his 20s, he and his girlfriend at the time,&nbsp;<strong>Maggie<\/strong>, accidentally conceived a child after having intercourse for the first time.&nbsp;&#8220;We&#8217;d had sex one time, but I knew it. I knew she was pregnant,&#8221; DeMarcus says,&nbsp;explaining the moment he realized the condom broke.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>He writes that he and Maggie had only been dating for one month, but they considered &#8220;getting married and raised the children ourselves.&#8221; However, Jay adds they quickly realized that doing so would be a mistake. The now-48-year-old says that there was only one option left for them to consider: &#8220;Abortion was never an option, so we began to discuss adoption.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"63.5\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"17\">\n<p>Jay says he hoped to be a part of their child&#8217;s life, but it&nbsp;was apparent things wouldn&#8217;t work out that way. &#8220;It became evident that Maggie wanted nothing to do with me,&#8221; the bassist explains. &#8220;There was no interest in the two of us somehow working things out so we might raise our child together.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The&nbsp;Rascal Flatts artist adds that his mom even offered to adopt the little girl, but his girlfriend had made up her mind.&nbsp;&#8220;But her mother, Maggie, didn&#8217;t want either one of us in her life. That was a hard pill to swallow. I understand that sometimes life sends us reeling because of unexpected situations. But my heart in that moment, though scared, still desired to be in this beautiful child&#8217;s life,&#8221; Jay shares.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-3-img\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"31\">\n<div class=\"post-content__image\" readability=\"32\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2015319\/rs_1024x759-150419183746-634-rascal-flatts-acm-mh-0411915.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" border=\"0\" title=\"Gary LeVox, Jay DeMarcus, Joe Don Rooney, Rascal Flatts\" alt=\"Gary LeVox, Jay DeMarcus, Joe Don Rooney, Rascal Flatts\" data-width=\"1024\" data-height=\"759\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Jason Merritt\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photo-txt-3\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"43\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"26\">\n<p>Unfortunately, he shares that he never got to hold his daughter before she was placed up for adoption.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>On top of the already difficult decision, DeMarcus&#8217; Christian band with <strong>Neal Coomer<\/strong> split up. It seems that the pregnancy drove the breakup.<\/p>\n<p>While this experience was painful to get through,&nbsp;he says that is comforted by the fact that his daughter was taken in by a &#8220;wonderful family.&#8221; Jay adds that he requested for his daughter to be given a letter when she turned 14, explaining that he &#8220;loved her, did not abandon her and have tried several ways to make it possible to be in her life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, Jay formed Rascal Flatts and met his wife,&nbsp;<strong>Allison Alderson<\/strong>, who he married in 2004. Together, the pair welcomed a daughter named&nbsp;<strong>Madeline<\/strong>, 8, and a son named <strong>Dylan<\/strong>, 6.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1036988\/rascal-flatts-member-jay-demarcus-reveals-he-placed-daughter-for-adoption?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! Online<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rick Diamond\/Getty Images for Innovation In Music Awards Jay DeMarcus is opening up about his decision to put his first daughter up for adoption. The&nbsp;Rascal Flatts&nbsp;artist is detailing the ups and downs of his life in his new memoir&nbsp;Shotgun Angels: My Story of Broken Roads and Unshakeable Hope. In the book, which was released on [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-272200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-music-news"],"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-10-16 06:07:37","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KIDN - The Lift FM","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/272200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=272200"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/272200\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=272200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=272200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=272200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}