{"id":279945,"date":"2019-09-17T15:01:35","date_gmt":"2019-09-17T21:01:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1074100"},"modified":"2019-09-17T15:01:35","modified_gmt":"2019-09-17T21:01:35","slug":"silicon-valley-star-thomas-middleditch-reveals-swinging-saved-his-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/music-news\/silicon-valley-star-thomas-middleditch-reveals-swinging-saved-his-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Silicon Valley Star Thomas Middleditch Reveals Swinging &#8221;Saved&#8221; His Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"photo-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"48.254802831143\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"32\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2019817\/rs_634x1024-190917132317-634-Middleditch-mollie-me-91719.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Thomas Middleditch, Mollie Gates\" alt=\"Thomas Middleditch, Mollie Gates\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Rodin Eckenroth\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"34.817708333333\">\n<p><em>Silicon Valley&nbsp;<\/em>star&nbsp;<strong>Thomas Middleditch&nbsp;<\/strong>is revealing how swinging tamed the &#8220;ravenous little monster&#8221; that lives within him, thereby saving his four year marriage.<\/p>\n<p>This seemingly sacrificial act became necessary in the first days of his marriage to his wife,&nbsp;<strong>Mollie Middleditch<\/strong>. He&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.playboy.com\/read\/thomas-middleditch-20q\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tells<\/a> <em>Playboy<\/em>, &#8220;Only after I got married was I like, &#8216;Mollie, I&#8217;m sorry, but we have to get nontraditional here.&#8217;&nbsp;To her credit, instead of saying &#8216;Fuck you, I&#8217;m out,&#8217; she was like, &#8216;Let&#8217;s figure this out.&#8217; To be honest, swinging has saved our marriage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sounds easy, right? Well, not so much. The HBO star says that he and his wife &#8220;argue over it constantly.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a perpetual state of management and communication, to the point where it&#8217;s like, &#8216;All right, we&#8217;ve got to stop. Chill.&#8217; I&#8217;m gas, and she&#8217;s brakes,&#8221; the 37-year-old explains. Moreover, there are &#8220;strict&#8221; rules for their little arrangement and Thomas has to run nearly every decision by his &#8220;queen&#8221; Mollie.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"58\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"6\">\n<p>But it&#8217;s all worth it to the actor, because for him it&#8217;s not just about embracing his identity as a &#8220;sexual&#8221; being. He says that being &#8220;part of the lifestyle&#8221;\u2014Thomas claims that swinging is an antiquated term and he prefers this descriptor;&nbsp;the more you know\u2014is&nbsp;&#8220;a positive way of connecting with people and experiencing things on a very selfish level.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photo-txt-3\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"44.5\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"32\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2016819\/rs_634x1024-160919090513-634-thomas-mollie.cm.91916.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Thomas Middleditch, Mollie Gates, 2016 Emmy Awards, Arrivals, Couples\" alt=\"Thomas Middleditch, Mollie Gates, 2016 Emmy Awards, Arrivals, Couples\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Alberto E. Rodriguez\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"27\">\n<p>However &#8220;selfish&#8221; these desires are, Thomas insists, &#8220;I love my wife like I&#8217;ve never loved anyone before.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Plus, being &#8220;part of the lifestyle&#8221; isn&#8217;t exactly the BDSM,&nbsp;<em>Fifty Shades&nbsp;<\/em>way of life that people imagine. Of course, the Emmy-nominated star says that the parties exist, but for him and his wife it&#8217;s more about living a &#8220;1960s, peace-and-love&#8221; lifestyle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So, after this glowing recommendation, is Thomas ready to become the face of the &#8220;part of the lifestyle&#8221;? &#8220;I would be honored,&#8221; Middleditch declares.<\/p>\n<p>As for his wife, that&#8217;s a whole other story. Thomas says that she is &#8220;more private&#8221; and he doesn&#8217;t&nbsp;want her &#8220;to be mad at me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You can read&nbsp;all the details about his and Mollie&#8217;s &#8220;lifestyle&#8221;&nbsp;in the Pleasure issue of <em>Playboy<\/em>&nbsp;that hit newsstands on September 17th.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"tune-in-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"33\">\n<p class=\"tune-in__text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\">Don&#8217;t miss <em>E! News<\/em> every weeknight at 7, only on E!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1074100\/silicon-valley-star-thomas-middleditch-reveals-swinging-saved-his-marriage?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! 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He&nbsp;tells Playboy, &#8220;Only after I got married was I like, &#8216;Mollie, I&#8217;m sorry, but [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-279945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-music-news"],"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-10-22 02:39:30","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KIDN - The Lift FM","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=279945"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279945\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=279945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=279945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=279945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}