{"id":280799,"date":"2019-09-30T15:25:49","date_gmt":"2019-09-30T21:25:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1078340"},"modified":"2019-09-30T15:25:49","modified_gmt":"2019-09-30T21:25:49","slug":"ansel-elgort-is-looking-for-open-relationship-but-without-the-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/music-news\/ansel-elgort-is-looking-for-open-relationship-but-without-the-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Ansel Elgort Is Looking For Open Relationship&#8211;But &#8220;Without the Sex&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"photo-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"37.641719745223\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/201824\/rs_634x1024-180304170715-634.Ansel-Elgort-Violetta-Komyshan-Oscars.ms.030418.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Ansel Elgort, Violetta Komyshan, 2018 Oscars, Couples\" alt=\"Ansel Elgort, Violetta Komyshan, 2018 Oscars, Couples\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Kevin Mazur\/WireImage<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"16.611956521739\">\n<p>Stay open to the possibilities!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/ansel_elgort\">Ansel Elgort<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;dropped some bombs about his&nbsp;love life. Fresh off of his starring role in the film <em>The Goldfinch,<\/em>&nbsp;the actor sat down with <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.co.uk\/article\/ansel-elgort-interview-the-actor-talks-love-authenticity-and-his-new-film-the-goldfinch-dczkkx9dk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Times<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;to discuss the project and his current relationship with long-term girlfriend <strong>Violetta Komyshan.&nbsp;<\/strong>In the&nbsp;profile of the young Hollywood star he explained why he&#8217;s interested in having an open relationship&nbsp;with his high school sweetheart. But it&#8217;s not exactly the kind of open relationship people might suspect.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;d also like to find a lot more love. It doesn&#8217;t need to be sexual. I could be done sexually with my girlfriend. I think we&#8217;ve been pretty clear that I want to feel free to fall in love with people and that [option] should be open, but sexually it can be closed off,&#8221; he explained. While pretty unconventional, Ansel shared exactly how he came to this conclusion, and why it might work best for this stage of his life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"56.883408071749\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"7.7130044843049\">\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m in love with a bunch of my male friends who I&#8217;m not interested in having sex with, so why can&#8217;t I put the desire to have sex with women aside and let myself have love with women? I love <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/shailene_woodley\">Shailene Woodley<\/a><\/strong> and we never had anything sexual and that was great,&#8221; he continued. &#8220;There will probably be some sort of chemical thing at some point that you can&#8217;t help, but you just have to be disciplined and not be a f******\u2026We&#8217;re primitive beings.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"video-int-txt-3\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"38.415224913495\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-video-text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"17.730103806228\">\n<p>Ansel and Shailene starred together as love interests in the breakout film&nbsp;<em>The Fault In Our Stars<\/em>&nbsp;and then as brother and sister in&nbsp;<em>The Divergent<\/em>&nbsp;series. The two became fast friends on those films and have acknowledged their special bond many times since. They also had a sweet reunion at the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/933151\/shailene-woodley-and-ansel-elgort-s-divergent-reunion-gave-us-the-closure-we-needed?query=shailene%20woodley%20ansel%20elgort\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2018 Met Gala<\/a>&nbsp;where they were spotted together on the red carpet.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As for Ansel and Violetta, the two have been inseparable since meeting their Freshmen year of high school. Although they had a brief five-month breakup, Ansel shares that it was a hard time for him to adjust to life without his girl. &#8220;I knew something was missing, and I was like, &#8216;Oh, that&#8217;s love,'&#8221; he shared with Details. Whatever they&#8217;re doing it must be working, because Ansel and Violetta are going strong and are quickly becoming one of the cutest couples in Hollywood.&nbsp;Keep it up, you two!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"tune-in-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"33\">\n<p class=\"tune-in__text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\">Don&#8217;t miss <em>E! News<\/em> every weeknight at 7, only on E!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1078340\/ansel-elgort-is-looking-for-open-relationship-but-without-the-sex-?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! Online<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kevin Mazur\/WireImage Stay open to the possibilities!&nbsp; Ansel Elgort&nbsp;dropped some bombs about his&nbsp;love life. Fresh off of his starring role in the film The Goldfinch,&nbsp;the actor sat down with The Times&nbsp;to discuss the project and his current relationship with long-term girlfriend Violetta Komyshan.&nbsp;In the&nbsp;profile of the young Hollywood star he explained why he&#8217;s interested in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-280799","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-music-news"],"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-10-20 14:23:06","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KIDN - The Lift FM","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280799","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280799"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280799\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280799"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280799"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280799"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}