{"id":282275,"date":"2019-10-23T07:19:06","date_gmt":"2019-10-23T13:19:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1085352"},"modified":"2019-10-23T07:19:06","modified_gmt":"2019-10-23T13:19:06","slug":"nattie-neidhart-talks-dealing-with-the-loss-of-her-dad-close-bond-with-ronda-rousey-motherhood-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/music-news\/nattie-neidhart-talks-dealing-with-the-loss-of-her-dad-close-bond-with-ronda-rousey-motherhood-more\/","title":{"rendered":"Nattie Neidhart Talks Dealing With the Loss of Her Dad, &#8221;Close&#8221; Bond With Ronda Rousey, Motherhood &amp; More"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2019922\/rs_600x600-191022142736-600NattieNeidhart-TotalDivas901.jpg?fit=around|600:467&amp;crop=600:467;center,top&amp;output-quality=90\" class=\"ff-og-image-inserted\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"video-int-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"39.07171314741\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-video-text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"22.326693227092\">\n<p>As a third-generation professional wrestler, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/nattie_neidhart\">Nattie Neidhart<\/a><\/strong> knows how to wear a brave face like her job depends on it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>That might be considered best practice in the squared circle, but navigating loss on the outside proves a different beast entirely for the WWE superstar, who grapples with&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1079434\/nattie-neidhart-remembers-her-late-father-on-mom-s-birthday-my-dad-is-really-with-us\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">the sudden death of her father<\/a> <strong>Jim &#8220;The Anvil&#8221; Neidhart<\/strong> during <em>Total Divas<\/em>&#8216; current season. In exclusive comments to E! News this week, Nattie calls season nine one of the &#8220;most powerful&#8221; she&#8217;s filmed. And that&#8217;s saying something, since her tenure on the show began with its 2013 pilot and this is the first time she&#8217;s dealt with something so difficult on-camera.<\/p>\n<p>But as the series veteran seems to acknowledge, authenticity resonates, even in its messiest, most roundabout iterations. So, even though <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1079528\/ronda-rousey-is-worried-about-total-divas-co-star-nattie-neidhart-find-out-why\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nattie&#8217;s grieving process<\/a> on <em>Total Divas<\/em> has so far been characterized more by diversion than emotional expression, she emphasizes now that mourning is a custom experience, and everyone handles it differently.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"63.265682656827\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"23.431734317343\">\n<p>&#8220;When you go through grief or you go through trauma, there&#8217;s no playbook on how to handle it,&#8221; the athlete imparts, going on to say she still takes hers &#8220;one day at a time.&#8221; Speaking about what it&#8217;s been like to relive the earlier part of that journey as it airs on television, Nattie notes that, in some ways, she&#8217;s watching and learning alongside the rest of us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t realize how much I was going through until I started watching these episodes back,&#8221; she admits of the new season, which began filming just a few months after <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1071903\/nattie-neidhart-breaks-down-over-dad-jim-the-anvil-neidhart-s-death-in-new-total-divas-promo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">her dad passed away<\/a> in Aug. 2018. Continuing, Neidhart says she cried watching last week&#8217;s episode (which saw her reach what felt like a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1082824\/a-trip-to-ronda-rousey-s-teaches-nattie-neidhart-an-important-lesson-about-grief-on-total-divas\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">turning point in the grieving process<\/a> during a stay at <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/ronda_rousey\">Ronda Rousey<\/a><\/strong>&#8216;s farm) &#8220;because I didn&#8217;t know how much of a storm I was in.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In retrospect, Nattie realized she &#8220;was barely functioning going to work and barely able to keep it together each and every day without finding [herself] in tears&#8221;\u2014 a fairly stark departure from the party-planning, work partnership-pitching woman we&#8217;ve been&nbsp;following on <em>Total Divas<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"61.134589502019\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"15.526244952894\">\n<p>Interestingly, her sentiments echo similar observations made by Ronda, who&#8217;s spent a great deal of screen time encouraging Nattie to face grief head-on and &#8220;let it suck&#8221; instead of trying to dodge the inevitable (the combat sports icon and <em>Divas<\/em> newcomer opened up about losing her own father earlier this season).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ronda became a really close friend of mine,&#8221; Nattie recounts fondly of her colleague and co-star, praising the &#8220;awesome connection&#8221; they&#8217;ve developed since&nbsp;Rowsey&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1073519\/13-fascinating-facts-about-new-total-divas-star-ronda-rousey\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">induction into the WWE<\/a>.&nbsp;&#8220;I love Ronda for what she was able to give me, which was comfort and support,&#8221;&nbsp;Neidhart shares. &#8220;She really made me feel less alone because I was grieving and I still am grieving. Losing a parent is a loss you never really get over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-6\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"63.167679222357\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"18.607533414338\">\n<p>In the present day, Nattie is back to keeping busy. With WWE&#8217;s women&#8217;s division continuing to kick butt, take names <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/shows\/total_divas\/news\/1078345\/ronda-rousey-wrestles-with-motherhood-making-history-in-new-total-divas-supertease\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">and break records<\/a>, she has her eye on several prestigious titles (the Raw Women&#8217;s Championship among them) and is integral to the company&#8217;s philanthropic partnership with the Susan G. Komen foundation. Absent from her to-do list are plans to expand her and husband <strong>TJ<\/strong>&#8216;s family, which boasts a couple of cats and no children.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve never wanted to have kids,&#8221; she explains. &#8220;I was very close to my parents, I&#8217;m very close to my sisters, I even have a very maternal instinct in the locker room with the girls that I work with. But I don&#8217;t want my own kids\u2026 I don&#8217;t think anyone should be a parent unless they really are fully committed to it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Learn more about Nattie&#8217;s journey this season in the video above!<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"tune-in-7\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"33\">\n<p class=\"tune-in__text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\">Watch a brand new episode of <i>Total Divas<\/i> Tuesday at 10 p.m., only on E!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1085352\/nattie-neidhart-talks-dealing-with-the-loss-of-her-dad-close-bond-with-ronda-rousey-motherhood-more?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! 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