{"id":282710,"date":"2019-10-30T18:38:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T00:38:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1088114"},"modified":"2019-10-30T18:38:12","modified_gmt":"2019-10-31T00:38:12","slug":"charli-xcx-speaks-out-over-abusive-meet-and-greet-interactions-with-fans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kidn\/music-news\/charli-xcx-speaks-out-over-abusive-meet-and-greet-interactions-with-fans\/","title":{"rendered":"Charli XCX Speaks Out Over &#8221;Abusive&#8221; Meet and Greet Interactions With Fans"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"photo-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"40.060710194731\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2019527\/rs_634x1024-190627185521-634-charli-xcx-pride-me-62719.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Charli XCX\" alt=\"Charli XCX\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Theo Wargo\/Getty Images<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"21.481743227326\">\n<p><strong>Charli XCX&nbsp;<\/strong>is here to make her fans&#8217; dreams come true and if that means posing with a mom&#8217;s ashes or signing a douche, she will do it.<\/p>\n<p>But, in a not so shocking twist, it appears people&nbsp;are a bit disturbed&nbsp;by the demands that fans are placing on the musician. Across all social media platforms, people began to call-out the aforementioned fans for their actions. But one <a href=\"https:\/\/junkee.com\/charli-xcx-poppers-douche-queer-gay-fans\/226620\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">think-piece<\/a>&nbsp;sparked major buzz about the situation when the writer claimed&nbsp;fans&#8217; &#8220;invasive, ridiculous request[s]&#8221; make Charli&nbsp;&#8220;a prop for their own clout.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And Charli understands why some people would be a bit&nbsp;unnerved by the fan encounter. In a new <a href=\"https:\/\/i-d.vice.com\/en_us\/article\/vb5nv3\/charli-xcx-tour-im-with-the-band-interview\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">interview<\/a> she says that she was, of course, shocked by the request, but that she lets her fans &#8220;get away with a lot.&#8221; Plus, she says she loves &#8220;Twitter culture&#8221; and the cheeky responses her photo with the ashes garnered.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"54.656593406593\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"4.7527472527473\">\n<p>However, her blas\u00e9 attitude regarding these moments didn&#8217;t seem to get through to people, because Charli is now making her feelings crystal clear in a <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/charli_xcx\/status\/1189589055631249408?s=20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">statement<\/a> shared to Twitter.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"socialcontent-twitter-3\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" data-type=\"async\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"39.905594405594\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" readability=\"4.2377622377622\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">A NOTE ON \u201c2019 FAKE WOKENESS\u201d AND MEET AND GREETS. THANKS FOR READING. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Gou5F5jevo\">pic.twitter.com\/Gou5F5jevo<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Charli (@charli_xcx) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/charli_xcx\/status\/1189589055631249408?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 30, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"61\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"12\">\n<p>To start the lengthy call-out, Charli says she didn&#8217;t want to speak out about the peculiar encounters because she felt it would lend some credence to peoples&#8217; claims that fans are &#8220;taking advantage\/being abusive\/using me for &#8216;online clout&#8217;.&#8221; She says she only changed her mind because these judgments are &#8220;so ridiculous and pretentious.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;People writing these articles are guilty of exactly the same thing they are accusing fans of: these journalists are using the same images they condemn fans for taking as clickbait to push their &#8216;think pieces&#8217; on me and my culture as an artist,&#8221; the Brit explains. &#8220;It&#8217;s all wrapped up in this brand of &#8216;2019 fake wokeness&#8217; that I cannot stand: it does more harm than good and just encourages people to attack and harass one another online.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"socialcontent-twitter-5\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" data-type=\"async\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"28.651162790698\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" readability=\"2.5581395348837\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Omfg \ud83e\udd70\ud83e\udd70\ud83e\udd70 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/0rJZ4hznBm\">pic.twitter.com\/0rJZ4hznBm<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 marcus (@machinewrld) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/machinewrld\/status\/1188889335359311872?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 28, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-6\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"64\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"18\">\n<p>As for the fans who &#8220;rushed to my defense, she says that the &#8220;concern is unwarranted,&#8221; because it&#8217;s such a small part of the huge meet and greets she holds.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I take away the fact that people wait outside in the cold for me, tell me that a certain song changed their life or that a particular album got them through a tough time. These things are the things that I dwell on after meet and greets,&#8221; she insists. Moreover, she points out that she is a human with free will, which means she knows she has the right to &#8220;decline certain things&#8221; while other times she doesn&#8217;t &#8220;think twice&#8221; about a request.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And, more importantly, she feels that she shouldn&#8217;t have to give a &#8220;blow by blow commentary.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photo-txt-7\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"43.825049701789\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"32\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2017122\/rs_634x1024-170222102731-634-charli-xcx-brit-awards.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Charli XCX, BRIT Awards\" alt=\"Charli XCX, BRIT Awards\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Joanne Davidson\/SilverHub\/REX\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"25.892004153686\">\n<p>But, seeing as the internet is &#8220;left to interpret everything as it wishes,&#8221; she wants to make it clear that she doesn&#8217;t think her &#8220;fans have been abusive.&#8221; If she did, she would stop it.<\/p>\n<p>Charli also says that if the &#8220;ridiculous narrative&#8221; around her meet and greets continues, then she will have no choice but to &#8220;cancel all of them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;To conclude, I always hgope for and try my best to encourage freedom of expression and a safe space, both at my shows and at any community gathering of fans. I really hope to continue this,&#8221; she shares.<\/p>\n<p>This response comes as a relief to the fan who asked for the picture with the ashes. They&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.papermag.com\/charli-xcx-ashes-fan-photo-2641165833.html?rebelltitem=29#rebelltitem29\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">told<\/a>&nbsp;an outlet, &#8220;I&#8217;m really sorry that it&#8217;s turned into such a thing. If I&#8217;d known that people would bring her a douche, I don&#8217;t think I would have tweeted my picture. I don&#8217;t regret asking her, because it means something to me to have this photo, but I definitely think unintentionally I started this mess. And I feel bad about that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-8\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"62.5\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"15\">\n<p>But the person agrees with Charli about the fact that people are being &#8220;really f&#8211;king unkind,&#8221; although he feels that way because he&#8217;s also being attacked. He explains, &#8220;I think it&#8217;s very different, I didn&#8217;t trick her into doing anything, even if I made her uncomfortable. It was a very personal, specific thing. It wasn&#8217;t intended for clout. For me the douche situation seems specifically intended to capitalize on this idea of, oh, if I bring a weird thing to Charli&#8217;s meet and greet I&#8217;ll get lots of retweets. I guess I take responsibility for starting that, in a sense.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The person who asked her to sign his douche has yet to comment.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1088114\/charli-xcx-speaks-out-over-abusive-meet-and-greet-interactions-with-fans?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! Online<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Theo Wargo\/Getty Images Charli XCX&nbsp;is here to make her fans&#8217; dreams come true and if that means posing with a mom&#8217;s ashes or signing a douche, she will do it. But, in a not so shocking twist, it appears people&nbsp;are a bit disturbed&nbsp;by the demands that fans are placing on the musician. 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