{"id":24580,"date":"2019-05-31T08:41:47","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T14:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1045849"},"modified":"2019-05-31T08:41:47","modified_gmt":"2019-05-31T14:41:47","slug":"ellen-degeneres-mom-betty-lives-with-regret-after-ignoring-her-daughters-sexual-abuse-claims","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kift\/music-news\/ellen-degeneres-mom-betty-lives-with-regret-after-ignoring-her-daughters-sexual-abuse-claims\/","title":{"rendered":"Ellen DeGeneres&#8217; Mom Betty Lives With &#8220;Regret&#8221; After Ignoring Her Daughter&#8217;s Sexual Abuse Claims"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"video-int-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"42.915110356537\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-video-text\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"29.853989813243\">\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/ellen_degeneres\">Ellen DeGeneres<\/a><\/strong>&#8216; mom is breaking her silence on her daughter&#8217;s claims that she was sexually abused by her stepfather.<\/p>\n<p>The 61-year-old talk show host and comedienne had talked about her experiences in an interview&nbsp;with&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/david_letterman\">David Letterman<\/a><\/strong> on an episode of his&nbsp;Netflix series,&nbsp;<em>My Next Guest Needs No Introduction<\/em>, which was released last week. She said that her mother,&nbsp;<strong>Betty DeGeneres<\/strong>, had <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1044849\/ellen-degeneres-opens-up-about-being-sexually-assaulted-as-a-teenager\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">remarried a &#8220;a very bad man&#8221; who hurt her<\/a>, and that&nbsp;after she told her about his actions, years later,&nbsp;she didn&#8217;t believe&nbsp;her and remained with him for 18 more years before leaving him &#8220;because he&#8217;d changed the story so many times.&#8221; He has since died.<\/p>\n<p class>Betty, 89, who has been a frequent guest on&nbsp;<em>The Ellen DeGeneres Show<\/em>, responded to her daughter&#8217;s comments in an exclusive statement that was provided to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/news\/ellen-degeneres-mom-breaks-silence-sexual-abuse-allegations-revealed-david-t155203\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">NBC News<\/a> through Ellen.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class>&#8220;I know now that one of the hardest things to do is speak up after being sexually abused,&#8221; Betty said. &#8220;I love my daughter, and I wish I had the capacity to listen to her when she told me what happened.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class>&#8220;I live with that regret, and I wouldn&#8217;t want that for any other parent. If someone in your life has the courage to speak out, please believe them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"56.5\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"3\">\n<p>Ellen had first talked about her sexual abuse in an interview with <em>Allure<\/em> in 2005. She said&nbsp;it&nbsp;started after her mother had a&nbsp;mastectomy.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-3-img\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"31\">\n<div class=\"post-content__image\" readability=\"32\"> <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/2019431\/rs_634x1024-190531073109-634x1024-ellendegeneresandmom-gj-5-31-19.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"Ellen DeGeneres and mom\" alt=\"Ellen DeGeneres and mom\" data-text=\"false\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">Alberto E. Rodriguez\/Getty Images for Disney<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"68.859118852459\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"28.732581967213\">\n<p>&#8220;My mother had had breast cancer right after they got married,&#8221;&nbsp;she said in her recent appearance on <em>My Next Guest Needs No Introduction<\/em>. &#8220;So she had a breast removed, and they had a very, very sexual relationship, which was also very uncomfortable for me. And he told me when she was out of town that he&#8217;d felt a lump in her breast and needed to feel my breasts because he didn&#8217;t want to upset her, but he needed to feel mine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then when I didn&#8217;t let him the next time, you know, it just&#8230;he just kept taunting me and pretending like he was coming at me all the time,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Ellen added, &#8220;When I see people speaking out, especially now, it angers me when victims aren&#8217;t believed because we just don&#8217;t make stuff up. And I like men, but there are so many men that get away with so much. It is just time for us to have a voice. It&#8217;s time for us to have power.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>For free, confidential help, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or visit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rainn.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rainn.org<\/a>.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1045849\/ellen-degeneres-mom-betty-lives-with-regret-after-ignoring-her-daughter-s-sexual-abuse-claims?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! Online<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ellen DeGeneres&#8216; mom is breaking her silence on her daughter&#8217;s claims that she was sexually abused by her stepfather. The 61-year-old talk show host and comedienne had talked about her experiences in an interview&nbsp;with&nbsp;David Letterman on an episode of his&nbsp;Netflix series,&nbsp;My Next Guest Needs No Introduction, which was released last week. 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