{"id":28586,"date":"2019-08-09T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/b1063551"},"modified":"2019-08-09T10:00:00","modified_gmt":"2019-08-09T16:00:00","slug":"meet-90-day-fiance-before-the-90-days-star-rebecca-she-knows-you-think-shes-a-hot-mess","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kift\/music-news\/meet-90-day-fiance-before-the-90-days-star-rebecca-she-knows-you-think-shes-a-hot-mess\/","title":{"rendered":"Meet 90 Day Fianc\u00e9: Before the 90 Days Star Rebecca&#8211;She Knows You Think She&#8217;s a Hot Mess"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"photo-txt-0\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"38.5\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"17\">\n<p><em>90 Day Fianc\u00e9: Before the 90 Days<\/em> star <strong>Rebecca<\/strong> knows you probably think she&#8217;s a bit of a mess. And she owns it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve seen the comments already, but it&#8217;s part of what I signed up for. I can handle it. These people don&#8217;t know me personally so I&#8217;m not taking it personally, they&#8217;re reacting to what they see on TV and so I can handle that. But the majority of it I deserve, they&#8217;re not wrong,&#8221; Rebecca said with a laugh.<\/p>\n<p>The 47-year-old private investigator is on season three of the TLC reality series where she&#8217;s traveling to meet 26-year-old <strong>Zied<\/strong> in Tunisia, hopeful that this could be it for her after three previous marriages\u2014one of them to a Moroccan man she brought to the United States on a spousal visa.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-2\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"63\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"16\">\n<p>&#8220;To be honest I&#8217;ve always lived my life looking for adventure, I&#8217;m always up for new things. We really didn&#8217;t hesitate at all,&#8221; she said about her decision-making process before signing up for <em>90 Day<\/em>. &#8220;I&#8217;m not sure I knew exactly what I was getting myself into, but I tend to live that way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Now, she&#8217;s giving love another try and bringing cameras along for the ride, despite having never seen <em>90 Day Fianc\u00e9<\/em> before. Rebecca admitted to E! News she did have hesitation about striking up a romance with a foreigner. &#8220;I never intended to take it this far,&#8221; she said. But once the started talking after meeting on Facebook, things just happened.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"photo-txt-3\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"40.5\">\n<div class=\"column post-content__image--left post-content__image\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"image--full\" src=\"https:\/\/akns-images.eonline.com\/eol_images\/Entire_Site\/201971\/rs_634x950-190801091656-634-Zied-ch-080119.jpg?fit=inside|900:auto&amp;output-quality=90\" title=\"90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days\" alt=\"90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"image__credits\">CBS<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-photo-text\" readability=\"21\">\n<p>&#8220;Once we started talking on the phone, I made it very clear and upfront that I had no intention of having a relationship with someone outside of the country,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I told him why, I told him I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship with someone from Morocco. But he was just very charming, he&#8217;s a genuinely good guy. So here I was, going back out of the country, going to Tunisia. But no, I didn&#8217;t intend to do it,&#8221; Rebecca said.<\/p>\n<p>And her private eye instincts were on high alert, as were her colleagues, considering she caught her ex-husband cheating after tracking his car. Since she had been burned before, her family was skeptical, and Rebecca respected that.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-4\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"60.5\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"11\">\n<p>&#8220;Given everything that happened with my ex I&#8217;m surprised they didn&#8217;t lock me in a basement and keep me from going. He won them over as well before\u2026he made an honest effort before I left to make them feel comfortable and have as much of a relationship with him as they could to make them feel good, so once I flew over there by myself they felt somewhat comfortable,&#8221; Rebecca said.<\/p>\n<p>Ahead of the show, Rebecca said TLC warned her to not take anything personally and don&#8217;t post any spoilers.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-5\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"67\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"24\">\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s some really nasty people out there so it&#8217;s not a surprise at all. But I&#8217;ve actually gotten a lot of support too! I&#8217;ve been shocked by all of the people who are genuinely nice and excited and reach out,&#8221; she said. &#8220;And even the people who are being trolls and saying hateful things, literally they&#8217;re not wrong, I do use a lot of filters and I do make myself look a lot younger so it&#8217;s not like they&#8217;re picking on me for something that&#8217;s not true.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She even got flack from viewers before the show even started airing episodes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In the very beginning when the promos started coming out and the trolls started coming out and I started seeing, \u2018another hot mess, another train wreck.&#8217; I kind of laughed. So, I actually made up a little pink sign, a little meme thing, whatever, and I posted it on my social media and everywhere I could find where they were saying this and it said, \u2018Of course I&#8217;m a hot mess, they don&#8217;t put you on reality TV if you&#8217;re normal.&#8217; And that kind of cut them off at the knees. Like, why do you think this is shocking to me that you&#8217;re calling me a hot mess? Of course my life looks a little like a mess or else why would I be on TV? I just take it with a grain of salt.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"text-6\" data-hook=\"scrollable-block\" readability=\"56\">\n<section data-textblock-tracking=\"text-block-text-only\" data-swiftype-index=\"false\" readability=\"2\">\n<p><em>90 Day Fianc\u00e9: Before the 90 Days<\/em> airs Sundays at 8 p.m. on TLC.<\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eonline.com\/news\/1063551\/meet-90-day-fiance-before-the-90-days-star-rebecca-she-knows-you-think-she-s-a-hot-mess?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&#038;utm_source=eonline&#038;utm_medium=rssfeeds&#038;utm_campaign=rss_topstories\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: E! 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