{"id":15478,"date":"2019-05-26T20:28:00","date_gmt":"2019-05-27T02:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.postindependent.com\/memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans\/"},"modified":"2019-05-27T07:22:05","modified_gmt":"2019-05-27T13:22:05","slug":"memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/local-news\/memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans\/","title":{"rendered":"Memorial Day perspectives from three area veterans"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure style=\"width: 465px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/12\/2019\/05\/memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans.jpg\" class=\"size-large attachment-large wp-post-image\" width=\"465\" height=\"620\" srcset=\"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/12\/2019\/05\/memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans.jpg 465w, https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/12\/2019\/05\/memorial-day-perspectives-from-three-area-veterans-1.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 465px) 100vw, 465px\"><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><strong>Nino Santiago Jr. is recognized by the Basalt Police Department.<\/strong><br \/><em>Provided<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">For many, the best way to remember and honor the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military is to tell their stories and to keep their spirit of service alive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">For veterans, the military is a tribe where the fallen hold a special place, and each member shares a formidable bond. And while area veterans Nino Santiago Jr., Pat Hammon and Tim Hayes have traveled different roads throughout their careers, somehow they have all arrived at the same place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">A Puerto Rico native, Santiago was raised in north Philadelphia, which, at the time, was known as the murder capital of the U.S. He describes it as a poverty-stricken neighborhood full of crime, gangs and drugs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cMy mother had me when she was 16, and my father (Nino Santiago Sr.) joined the Marine Corps when he was 18,\u201d Santiago said.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\" readability=\"2.5\">\n<blockquote readability=\"8\"><p>On June 11, some local restaurants throughout the area will participate in \u201cDining Out for Vets,\u201d by donating a percentage of proceeds from meal checks to the fund.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">His parents divorced when he was 2. During his elementary and middle school years, his mother wanted him to attend the best schools, but it was a challenge.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cThis was during a very racist period in Philadelphia, and it was a fight to get to and from elementary and middle school every day,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Growing up, Santiago did not know his father, but at 18, just like his father, he joined the Marine Corps for its reputation as an elite tribe that promised discipline and training.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI needed that,\u201d he said. \u201cI wanted to get out of Philadelphia, and I wanted to know something about my father, who was a Marine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">In 2004, when Santiago got out of the Marines, his father was then a police officer for the Carbondale Police Department. By then, Philadelphia had become overrun by gangs, and his father knew Santiago had friends who were active gang members.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cMost of my friends had since joined different gangs, and they put me in a bad situation where they tried to force me to pick a gang,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">His father didn\u2019t want him to go down that path and knew that if his son became a police officer, it would give him the opportunity to serve again, train, lead and be part of a team.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cHe asked me to move here, and I took his advice,\u201d said Santiago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Doing that gave him and his father time to rebuild their relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI became a police officer for the town of Carbondale, where my father was also an officer, and our relationship was everything I\u2019d imagined it should have always been.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">But, on March 22, 2011, everything changed again. That night, when Santiago and his father were both on duty, his father took his own life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cThis is one of the many reasons why PTSD and officer suicide are very important to me,\u201d said Santiago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cThere is nothing more important to me than legacy,\u201d he said. \u201cGod has placed me in every place, location and situation I had to be in for a great foundation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Santiago said his mission is now to empower the youth and Latino community who come from backgrounds like his. Santiago was just recently promoted to corporal at the Basalt Police Department.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cPrior to that I was the community resource officer, and it truly allowed me the opportunity to become one with my community,\u201d Santiago said. \u201cIn this role, I hope to be a part of helping all of our team members become the best versions of themselves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText Subhead\">nursing instructor saw time in vietnam<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Pat Hammon of Eagle remembers the first time she wanted to become a nurse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI was in sixth grade, and I did an aptitude test, and my teacher made fun of me in front of the whole class because I wanted to be a forest ranger, and that was a man\u2019s job,\u201d said Hammon. \u201cMy options were to be a teacher, a secretary or a nurse. I decided to become a nurse like my mother.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Ten months after nursing school and additional training, Hammon received orders for Vietnam. A New Jersey native, she quickly found herself on a plane with 10 other nurses bound for Tan Son Nhut Air Base in South Vietnam to serve with the U.S. Army Nurse Corps.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">According to the Department of Defense, Hammon would become one of the 6,250 nurses who served in Vietnam.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">As Hammon stepped off the plane into the hot, stifling humidity of South Vietnam, 1960s rock \u2019n\u2019 roll music blasted throughout a dusty airfield. Next thing she knew, they were sleeping in barracks with windows covered in chicken wire.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cIn the middle of the night the ammo dump got hit, blew up and sent debris flying everywhere. We hid under three-tiered bunks, shaking,\u201d said Hammon. \u201cThat was my welcome to Vietnam.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">She was 22 years old, and it was 1968.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">A few hours later, she was at the 24th evacuation hospital in Long Binh, a 468-bed hospital that specialized in brain and spine injuries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI worked in the emergency triage area, and I learned very quickly to keep my mouth shut,\u201d she said. \u201cAs a brand-new nurse, I knew very little.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Hammon worked 12 to 14 hours a day, six days a week, or more, in difficult circumstances dealing with injuries that were unfathomable to a young nurse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Hammon said she was in a platoon with soldiers who were great mentors.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI was working with some amazing master sergeants who had been in the Korean War, and they knew everything,\u201d she said. \u201cI learned everything from them. You learn more than you can possibly learn from textbooks or anywhere.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Decades later, Hammon would use the same style of leadership and mentorship throughout a 30-year career as a nurse that included teaching certified nursing aides at Colorado Mountain College.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Back in the U.S., Hammon\u2019s first job out of Vietnam was at Veteran\u2019s Affairs in Washington, D.C., in the Intensive Care Unit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cWe all had some PTSD,\u201d said Hammon, \u201cbut I came back and went to work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">She helped train some of the first paramedics in the country with the Bethesda Heart Association.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cThe idea of paramedics came out of Vietnam,\u201d said Hammon. \u201cWe had to stabilize soldiers before they were transported.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">By doing that, they had to learn to do it safely, correctly and quickly.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cBefore paramedics, the ambulance driver would drive like hell and hope the patient wouldn\u2019t die before arriving at the hospital.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Hammon is most proud of helping build the Vietnam Women\u2019s Memorial in Washington, D.C., dedicated to the women of the United States who served in the Vietnam War.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText Subhead\">glenwood gathering place<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">There are 417,000 veterans in Colorado, and approximately 7,200 of them live in the communities from Aspen to Parachute and throughout the Eagle Valley.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Every Thursday, 20 to 30 of them gather at the Jesse Beckius\/Casey Owens Veterans Resource Center in downtown Glenwood Springs, named for two local Marines who took their own lives after returning from Iran and Afghanistan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Because of their tragic stories, local veterans have made it their mission to ensure that never happens to another veteran.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">To that end, the center is a place where the tribe gathers to share their knowledge with the community.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cIt\u2019s the trust and the tribe,\u201d said Hammon. \u201cIn the tribe, you understand because you are surrounded by military brothers and sisters. It\u2019s a deep trust that civilians do not understand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Western Slope Veterans Coalition, also based at the center, believes that getting people together to tell their stories breaks barriers and helps decrease isolation among veterans.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cThat\u2019s the magic,\u201d Hammon said. \u201cPeople can talk about things they have never talked about; it\u2019s therapeutic and it\u2019s an invaluable tool.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">It can be a life-saving measure for veterans who may have chosen to isolate themselves and then, through WSVC, get connected with other veterans.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cAll of a sudden they are out the next weekend fly fishing with five other veterans,\u201d Hammon said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText Subhead\">deeper connection<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Army and Vietnam veteran Tim Hayes knows about the tribe.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cIn Vietnam, all we had was the tribe,\u201d he said. In 1968 he served in a combat zone near the Vietnamese Demilitarized Zone and was wounded by a mortar blast when his company was establishing control of a North Vietnamese-controlled area. After returning from the war, he earned a bachelor\u2019s degree in education, taught for many years, and also earned a degree in psychology. After teaching, he worked for 23 years as a counselor.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI used my experience and worked with kids who had been traumatized or abused,\u201d Hayes said. \u201cI understood the pain and the loss they experienced.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Hayes says that he could sense what he needed to say, and he knew when to talk and ask questions because he had done the healing work in his own life stemming from his own traumatic experiences in Vietnam.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">In some ways, Hayes said, he had a deeper connection with those he served than with anyone else.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cLove is not sexual. It\u2019s a close connection with a soul with another person and people you trust,\u201d he said. \u201cLove comes out of that being fulfilled.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Connection to resources is a critical service WSVC provides. One of the greatest needs of veterans and their families is to get assistance with their military discharge papers called DD Form 214. It\u2019s the form veterans need to claim their benefits. They also need it for jobs, schooling, mortgage loans and military funerals.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cWithout it, you don\u2019t go to square one,\u201d said Hammon. \u201cIt\u2019s their window into the VA.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">The WSVC board of directors comprises Hammon, Hayes, two other veterans, and three community members who, as part of their duties, manage the center\u2019s emergency fund, which provides immediate assistance to veterans and their families.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">On June 11, some local restaurants throughout the area will participate in \u201cDining Out for Vets,\u201d by donating a percentage of proceeds from meal checks to the fund.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">For veterans like Santiago, Hammon and Hayes, their service never stops. For them, Memorial Day isn\u2019t just about one day, it\u2019s about every moment. After living through intense experiences, all three, in their own way, found a way to continue to serve.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cI learned so many things from my father,\u201d said Santiago. \u201cBut most applicable for me was the habit of engaging in consistent action. He taught me how to not only use motivation to complete goals, but to build a habit to make them just what I do and to live with honor, integrity, commitment and professionalism.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">That\u2019s how the tribe honors their own every day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For many, the best way to remember and honor the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military is to tell their stories and to keep their spirit of service alive. For veterans, the military is a tribe where the fallen hold a special place, and each member shares a formidable bond. 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