{"id":15984,"date":"2019-06-16T10:21:25","date_gmt":"2019-06-16T16:21:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/?p=1808043"},"modified":"2019-06-16T10:21:25","modified_gmt":"2019-06-16T16:21:25","slug":"a-20-song-fathers-day-mix-about-dads-of-every-kind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/music-news\/a-20-song-fathers-day-mix-about-dads-of-every-kind\/","title":{"rendered":"A 20-Song Father\u2019s Day Mix About Dads of Every Kind"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cmt.mtvnimages.com\/uri\/mgid:ao:image:cmt.com:675380?width=1200&amp;height=675&amp;.jpg\" class=\"ff-og-image-inserted\"><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"byline\">by <span class=\"author\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/author\/morrise\/\" title=\"Posts by Edward Morris\" rel=\"author\">Edward Morris<\/a><\/span> <span class=\"date\">19m ago<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n<p>Am I missing something, or have songs about daddy pretty much gone out of fashion? Look at the charts, listen to the radio and you\u2019ll find very few current examples of this once pervasive genre.<\/p>\n<p>Daddy apparently carried more emotional weight when he was around the house a lot, hoeing corn or washing off coal dust than he does commuting to a distant job that enables him to buy pickup trucks and cellphones for everybody else in the family.<\/p>\n<p>But how long can we lyrically fixate on beach parties and babes in cut-offs? Let me rephrase that. Can\u2019t we pause occasionally in our understandable fixation on beach parties and babes in cut-offs to give a nod to the old man? After all, he helped make us the raging successes we are.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike moms, who are generally presented as admirable figures in country songs, dads are distributed almost equally between the \u201cstaying\u201d and the \u201cstraying\u201d kinds. The former are resolute sustainers of hearth, home and homilies, while the latter tend to be susceptible to \u201cneon fever\u201d and attendant pleasures of the flesh.<br \/>Be that as it may, permit me to recommend the 20 dad-centric songs listed below. They\u2019re arranged in no particular order, but each has passed my \u201cjukebox test,\u201d which can be summarized thusly: If I were time-warped to a bar that had a jukebox, would I pay good money to listen to this song even though I can already hear it playing in my head?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I would. And here are those songs:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Ford Fairlane<\/strong>,\u201d Bobby Pinson, 2005, written by Pinson and Kris Bergsnes)<\/p>\n<p>This is pure poetry in which a battered old car serves as a vivid chronicle of a dad\u2019s love for his son and vice versa. I\u2019ll go out on a limb (where I have extensive real estate holdings) and say that Stephen Sondheim, that master jeweler of American lyricists, never wrote a more profound or moving song than this one. Alan Jackson\u2019s \u201cDrive (For Daddy Gene)\u201d (2002) covers much the same territory but with a lighter touch.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>The Greatest Man I Never Knew<\/strong>,\u201d Reba McEntire (No. 3, 1992, written by Richard Leigh and Layng Martine Jr.)<\/p>\n<p>The last lines say it all about this dutiful \u2014 but emotionally distant \u2014 father: <em>\u201cHe was good at business\/But there was business left to do\/He never said he loved me\/Guess he thought I knew.\u201d<\/em> Reba\u2019s will always be the definitive version of this song, but give a listen to the inimitable Billy Dean\u2019s interpretation, as well. It reveals its own set of wounds.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4AIrDSGyqSw?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4AIrDSGyqSw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>That\u2019s My Job<\/strong>,\u201d Conway Twitty (No. 6, 1988, written by Gary Burr)<\/p>\n<p>Without boast, complaint or breast-beating, this father simply accepts that it is his \u201cjob\u201d to keep his son safe, whether he agrees with his choices or not. George Strait\u2019s \u201cLove Without End, Amen\u201d (1990) resounds with the same theme.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Dream of a Miner\u2019s Child<\/strong>,\u201d Vernon Dalhart (pre-charts, 1925, written by Robert Donelly and Will Geddes)<\/p>\n<p>This daughter\u2019s warning to her dad was written and published in London in 1910 under the title \u201cDon\u2019t Go Down in the Mine, Dad.\u201d It was popularized by Vernon Dalhart in a 1925 record with the current title. The song has become a bluegrass standard, with recordings by the Stanley Brothers, Doc Watson, the Johnson Mountain Boys, Keith Whitley and Ricky Skaggs and many others. I still weep like the runner up in a Texas beauty pageant every time I hear it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I Loved Her First<\/strong>,\u201d Heartland (No. 1, 2006, written by Walt Aldridge and Elliott Park)<\/p>\n<p>Here we have the soliloquy of a conflicted father who, while happy to see his daughter deeply in love, is sorry to lose to marriage the \u201cfreckle-faced kid\u201d he remembers. It is a tear-jerker of the first order and will be the soundtrack at wedding receptions for ages to come.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Pg8Z69B6RFQ?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Pg8Z69B6RFQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>To Daddy<\/strong>,\u201d Emmylou Harris (No. 3, 1978, written by Dolly Parton)<\/p>\n<p>This is such a gentle-sounding song, especially the way Harris does it, your head almost snaps back when you get to the part where the apparently docile mother finally walks out on her insufferably self-centered mate. Serves him right, the bastard. And best of luck to you, ma\u2019am.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ymtaxqsqZQg?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ymtaxqsqZQg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Brand New Mister Me<\/strong>,\u201d Mel Tillis (No. 8, 1971, written by Ron McCown)<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cDo my children call you daddy?\/Is my darlin\u2019 good to you?\u201d<\/em> the singer wonders, as he drives each morning past the house that was once his home. <em>\u201cIf I\u2019d shown the love she needed,\u201d<\/em> he laments, <em>\u201cshe would still belong to me.\u201d<\/em> Even repentant, he sounds a mite possessive, don\u2019t you think? You may notice this is the same drive-by surveillance approach that Toby Keith takes in \u201cWho\u2019s That Man\u201d (1994), except Keith doesn\u2019t assign blame for the breakup.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>He Didn\u2019t Have to Be<\/strong>,\u201d Brad Paisley (No. 1, 1999, written by Paisley and Kelley Lovelace)<\/p>\n<p>Stepfathers don\u2019t have the adjective \u201cwicked\u201d attached to them as reflexively as stepmothers do, but they don\u2019t carry the reputation of being angelic, either. Well, this one is \u2014 a stepdad who embraces his wife\u2019s child as completely as if he were his own. Paisley says Lovelace is the stepfather who inspired the song.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BjO1F6oCab8?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BjO1F6oCab8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Daddy Never Was the Cadillac Kind<\/strong>,\u201d Confederate Railroad (No. 9, 1994, written by Dave Gibson and Bernie Nelson)<\/p>\n<p>While junior squanders his money and stretches his credit on flashy cars, his coal-mining daddy tries to talk some sense into him, but with little success. Daddy finally does take a ride in a Cadillac \u2014 on his way to the grave. Watch the original music video on this one. The last scene will have you wiping your eyes.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/v5R-T_YF-wU?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/v5R-T_YF-wU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Papa Loved Mama<\/strong>,\u201d Garth Brooks (No. 3, 1992, written by Brooks and Kim Williams)<\/p>\n<p>Papa conveys his distress at Mama\u2019s straying by driving his 18-wheeler through the motel room where\u2019s she\u2019s cuckolding him. The upshot: <em>\u201cMama\u2019s in the graveyard, Papa\u2019s in the pen.\u201d<\/em> If this isn\u2019t the most savage daddy song ever recorded, it\u2019s certainly the most colorful one.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Song for Dad<\/strong>,\u201d Keith Urban (album cut from Golden Road, 2002, written by Urban)<\/p>\n<p>A loving appreciation for a father who, although maybe a little rough at times, saw in his son the admirable man he could grow up to be.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>My Old Man<\/strong>,\u201d Zac Brown Band (No. 14, 2017, written by Zac Brown, Niko Moon and Ben Simonetti)<\/p>\n<p>Here the grateful son hopes he can pass on to his own son the love and guidance his father gave to him.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T_uGcW-v5EI?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T_uGcW-v5EI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Tough Little Boys<\/strong>,\u201d Gary Allan (No. 1, 2003, written by Harley Allen and Don Simpson)<\/p>\n<p>This is the sweetest daddy song of them all, particularly given the tender, understated way Allan sings it. No matter how much bravado a guy exhibits on his way to becoming a man, the lyrics observe, it all melts when he has a child. As the refrain says, <em>\u201cWhen tough little boys grow up to be dads\/They turn into big babies again.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8l_cCKLHRoo?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/8l_cCKLHRoo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I\u2019m Doing This for Daddy<\/strong>,\u201d Johnny Wright (No. 53, 1966, written by Gene Crysler)<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a tale that unfolds in that uncomfortable territory between copious weeping and uncontrollable giggling. A young lad marches into a bar to retrieve his mother from the clutches of a bounder who\u2019s putting the moves on her while daddy is away in Vietnam. Talk about a spoilsport. The song brings to mind two other effusions of daddy sentimentality: Molly O\u2019Day\u2019s \u201cDon\u2019t Sell Daddy Any More Whiskey\u201d (date uncertain), the recording of which, believe it or not, includes the sound of an infant crying, and John Denver\u2019s \u201cPlease Daddy (Don\u2019t Get Drunk This Christmas) (1974). Both songs deal with brutish, abusive dads. But they are so shamelessly manipulative that you react more to how the message is delivered than to what the message is.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Coal Miner\u2019s Daughter<\/strong>,\u201d Loretta Lynn (No. 1, 1970, written by Lynn)<\/p>\n<p>This is certainly the most famous daddy song in country music \u2014 and perhaps in all English music. It\u2019s earned its fame. Lynn packs an entire family history in a narrative packed with images. Not a word is wasted. It spawned a bestselling book and a hit movie. All dads should have such a doting daughter.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2iy5SRi45QE?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2iy5SRi45QE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>Daddy\u2019s Hands<\/strong>,\u201d Holly Dunn (No. 7, 1986, written by Dunn)<\/p>\n<p>A wistful bow to the man whose \u201c<em>hands weren\u2019t always gentle<\/em>\u201d but always expressive of love.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>That Silver Haired Daddy of Mine<\/strong>,\u201d Gene Autry (pre-chart, 1935, written by Autry and Jimmy Long)<\/p>\n<p>An apology to dad for all the heartaches the son has caused. This was Autry\u2019s first hit record. The song also appears in the 1935 westerns, <em>Tumbling Tumbleweed<\/em> and <em>The Phantom Empire<\/em>. Among the artists who\u2019ve covered it are Johnny Cash, Marty Robbins, the Everly Brothers and Slim Whitman.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>A Boy Named Sue<\/strong>,\u201d Johnny Cash (No. 1, 1969, written by Shel Silverstein)<\/p>\n<p>This was one reckless absentee dad. Since he chose not to be around to raise his son, he names him \u201cSue,\u201d figuring it will either toughen him or kill him. It\u2019s not a lesson the son is inspired to pass on.<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WOHPuY88Ry4?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/WOHPuY88Ry4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>\u201c<strong>I Still Can\u2019t Say Goodbye<\/strong>,\u201d Chet Atkins (Never charted, 1988, written by Chet Atkins)<\/p>\n<p>Atkins was 64 years old when he released this, which gives you some idea of the enduring impact his father had on him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>My Daddy Is Only a Picture<\/strong>,\u201d Eddy Arnold (No. 5, 1948, written by Tommy Dilbeck)<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s end this parade of papas with one more tear-jerker. Here\u2019s what a little boy tells a visitor who asks to see his father: <em>\u201cMy daddy is only a picture\/In a frame that hangs on the wall\/Each day I talk to my daddy\/But he never talks at all.<\/em>\u201d Since the dad died when the boy was going on 3, he has had to construct a father from a photo rather than memories. It\u2019s very sad but was also very common to a generation of \u201cwar babies\u201d whose fathers were killed in World War II, not long after which this song was recorded.<\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>Want more? Check out Merle Haggard\u2019s \u201cDaddy Frank (The Guitar Man),\u201d Johnny Cash\u2019s \u201cDaddy Sang Bass,\u201d Porter Wagoner and Dolly Parton\u2019s \u201cDaddy Was an Old Time Preacher Man,\u201d Wayne Newton\u2019s \u201cDaddy Don\u2019t You Walk So Fast,\u201d Bobby Bare\u2019s \u201cDaddy, What If,\u201d Jamey Johnson\u2019s \u201cThe Dollar\u201d and another one from Zac Brown Band, \u201cI Play the Road.\u201d I could go on, but that would be brutal.<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dQdPaq9NRLc?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dQdPaq9NRLc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<div class=\"author\">\n<div class=\"description\">Edward Morris is a veteran of country music journalism. He lives in Nashville, Tennessee, and is a frequent contributor to CMT.com.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/1808043\/a-20-song-fathers-day-mix-about-dads-of-every-kind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: CMT News<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Edward Morris 19m ago Am I missing something, or have songs about daddy pretty much gone out of fashion? Look at the charts, listen to the radio and you\u2019ll find very few current examples of this once pervasive genre. Daddy apparently carried more emotional weight when he was around the house a lot, hoeing [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15984","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-music-news"},"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-06-12 05:41:42","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KRKY Ski Country","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15984"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15984\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}