{"id":16904,"date":"2019-07-23T08:17:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-23T14:17:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/?p=1809373"},"modified":"2019-07-23T08:17:12","modified_gmt":"2019-07-23T14:17:12","slug":"what-this-1989-song-means-to-granger-smith-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/krky\/music-news\/what-this-1989-song-means-to-granger-smith-now\/","title":{"rendered":"What This 1989 Song Means to Granger Smith Now"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cmt.mtvnimages.com\/uri\/mgid:ao:image:cmt.com:678632?width=1200&amp;height=675&amp;.jpg\" class=\"ff-og-image-inserted\"><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"byline\">by <span class=\"author\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/author\/bonaguroa\/\" title=\"Posts by Alison Bonaguro\" rel=\"author\">Alison Bonaguro<\/a><\/span> <span class=\"date\">33m ago<\/span><\/span> <\/p>\n<p>In early June, the country music world wrapped their virtual arms around Granger Smith after his youngest son River died tragically at the family\u2019s Texas home.<\/p>\n<p>Now, almost six weeks later, Smith is opening up about the healing process, and how much music is a part of it. On what he calls a special night, he made the eight-minute video to update his fans, friends and family about how he and his wife Amber and their two older children, London, 7, and Lincoln, 5, are doing.<\/p>\n<p>Smith shot the video backstage, at the show where he was opening for Garth Brooks.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy grandmother loved \u2019If Tomorrow Never Comes,&#8217;\u201d Smith recalled. \u201cAnd when my grandad died she engraved on his tombstone, If tomorrow never comes, will you know how much I love you?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>(Brooks has said of that 1989 song, \u201cI ran the idea for this song by what seemed like a thousand writers and no one really seemed to understand what I was looking for. On the day that Bob Doyle, my co-manager, introduced me to Kent Blazy, I passed this idea by Kent and he had the first verse down within fifteen seconds. I could tell he just felt it.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>\u201cTonight, everything came full circle because we\u2019re out here on tour with Garth Brooks. The guy who taught me as a little kid how powerful lyrics can be. Here in a stadium, playing \u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=xZIMTOcwxuQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Heaven Bound Balloon<\/a>\u2019 to a Garth Brooks crowd, I knew that that was gonna mean something to me. To give a tribute in my own way to Riv.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Smith goes on to say that music has always been healing to his family, and now more so than ever. \u201cMaybe that\u2019s why people say, \u2019How can you play a show?\u2019 It\u2019s because music is healing. The fans are healing me. You guys are doing the healing for me. It works both ways.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"deferred_content\">Embedded from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Kse4R3P1xXY?feature=oembed\">www.youtube.com<\/a>. <noscript class=\"deferred_content\" data-deferred-info=\"{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;iframe&quot;}\"><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Kse4R3P1xXY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\">[embedded content]<\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><\/noscript><\/div>\n<p>For Smith and his wife, he says, they know that life is full of suffering and tribulations. How you come out of that on the other side is the meaning of life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf you go through life thinking, \u2019I\u2019ve got this perfect life, look at me on Instagram,\u2019 and you truly start believing that, then the flood\u2019s coming. And when it does, you\u2019re gonna think that <em>you\u2019re<\/em> the victim. That life is not fair <em>for you<\/em>. God isn\u2019t fair. He\u2019s not listening,\u201d he says of the trap he refused to fall into.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cInstead, we focus on understanding that life is gonna through curve balls and come at you hard.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Amber is the more vocal of the two, both before and after River\u2019s death. And Smith says she is \u201ca lot better at words that I am.\u201d She is indeed very good at capturing her emotions with pictures and words. Her latest Instagram post about their decision to donate River\u2019s organs after he died is the perfect example of that.<br \/><em><br \/>\u201cI\u2019ve always known I wanted to be a donor if anything were to ever happen to me. I just felt that if I had viable organs, why would I go into the ground with them? My spirit would be in Heaven, so why not save a life if I could? Never in a million years did I think I would be making that decision for my baby. When 3 different neuro specialists told us that River had 0% chance of brain recovery (yes 0, not 10 or 1%, 0) after shock and reality set in, I thought, how can we bury our sweet baby and not try to help others? His body is perfect, his organs are perfect, we had to do something. There are so many people waiting for an organ to save their lives. The doctors said donation was quite a process. We would have to search for viable recipients and it could take days. We knew River\u2019s spirit was in Heaven, but we couldn\u2019t bear to watch his tiny, earthly body be pumped full of all the medicines for 3 or more more days while they searched. They tried to expedite the process so our family could be in peace, told us they would take him back to operate the next morning, but we wouldn\u2019t know what organs could be used until after. With such a small body, organs had to be measured physically, not just by X-ray. I spent the night laying in bed with him, crying and talking to him while they kept running tests and taking blood. The next morning family and staff lined the hall for the \u201cwalk of honor\u201d. We told them River liked to go fast, so to honor him, they pushed him down that hall faster than they had ever pushed anyone. Granger and I held each other and cried. We got the letter that our tiny, red-headed hero gave life to 2 adults. A 49 year old woman and a 53 year old man. I cried when we opened it. Cried out of sadness &amp; cried out of love. I\u2019m so proud to be River\u2019s mama and I\u2019m so grateful to God that he gave him to us for those incredible 3 years. I pray these 2 recipients live healthy, joy filled, full throttle lives just like Riv. It was one of the hardest, yet easiest, decisions we\u2019ve ever made. There are over 113,000 people waiting for transplants &amp; 20 people die each day waiting. Go to OrganDonor.gov to see how you can help give life as well.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bz3e41Th4_N\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bz3e41Th4_N\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <\/p>\n<div>\n<div>View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p> <\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bz3e41Th4_N\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I\u2019ve always known I wanted to be a donor if anything were to ever happen to me. I just felt that if I had viable organs, why would I go into the ground with them? My spirit would be in Heaven, so why not save a life if I could? Never in a million years did I think I would be making that decision for my baby. When 3 different neuro specialists told us that River had 0% chance of brain recovery (yes 0, not 10 or 1%, 0) after shock and reality set in, I thought, how can we bury our sweet baby and not try to help others? His body is perfect, his organs are perfect, we had to do something. There are so many people waiting for an organ to save their lives. The doctors said donation was quite a process. We would have to search for viable recipients and it could take days. We knew River\u2019s spirit was in Heaven, but we couldn\u2019t bear to watch his tiny, earthly body be pumped full of all the medicines for 3 or more more days while they searched. They tried to expedite the process so our family could be in peace, told us they would take him back to operate the next morning, but we wouldn\u2019t know what organs could be used until after. With such a small body, organs had to be measured physically, not just by X-ray. I spent the night laying in bed with him, crying and talking to him while they kept running tests and taking blood. The next morning family and staff lined the hall for the \u201cwalk of honor\u201d. We told them River liked to go fast, so to honor him, they pushed him down that hall faster than they had ever pushed anyone. Granger and I held each other and cried. We got the letter that our tiny, red-headed hero gave life to 2 adults. A 49 year old woman and a 53 year old man. I cried when we opened it. Cried out of sadness &amp; cried out of love. I\u2019m so proud to be River\u2019s mama and I\u2019m so grateful to God that he gave him to us for those incredible 3 years. I pray these 2 recipients live healthy, joy filled, full throttle lives just like Riv. It was one of the hardest, yet easiest, decisions we\u2019ve ever made. There are over 113,000 people waiting for transplants &amp; 20 people die each day waiting. Go to OrganDonor.gov to see how you can help give life as well. \u2764\ufe0f<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A post shared by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/amberemilysmith\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Amber Smith<\/a> (@amberemilysmith) on <time datetime=\"2019-07-13T18:25:29+00:00\">Jul 13, 2019 at 11:25am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"author\">\n<div class=\"description\">Alison makes her living loving country music. She&#8217;s based in Chicago, but she&#8217;s always leaving her heart in Nashville.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cmt.com\/news\/1809373\/what-this-1989-song-means-to-granger-smith-now\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: CMT News<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Alison Bonaguro 33m ago In early June, the country music world wrapped their virtual arms around Granger Smith after his youngest son River died tragically at the family\u2019s Texas home. Now, almost six weeks later, Smith is opening up about the healing process, and how much music is a part of it. 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