{"id":1311473,"date":"2019-06-16T21:08:00","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T03:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.postindependent.com\/flowers-column-drag-queen-story-hour-comes-to-the-library\/"},"modified":"2019-06-16T21:08:00","modified_gmt":"2019-06-17T03:08:00","slug":"flowers-column-drag-queen-story-hour-comes-to-the-library","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/local-news\/flowers-column-drag-queen-story-hour-comes-to-the-library\/","title":{"rendered":"Flowers column: Drag Queen Story Hour comes to the library"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<div class=\"caption-container\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"572\" height=\"620\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.postindependent.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2019\/04\/flowers-gpi-011719-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-post-image\" alt srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.postindependent.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2019\/04\/flowers-gpi-011719-1.jpg 572w, https:\/\/cdn.postindependent.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2019\/04\/flowers-gpi-011719-1-277x300.jpg 277w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 572px) 100vw, 572px\"><figcaption><strong>Christine Flowers<\/strong><br \/><\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText DropCap\">A friend emailed me recently asking if I\u2019d ever heard of \u201cDrag Queen Story Hour.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">At first, I thought it was something like Oprah\u2019s Book Club, only with better-dressed participants. But I did a little research, and realized that this was a \u201cthing\u201d that had been going on for a while across the country.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">In fact, if you go to Dragqueenstoryhour.org, this is what you find under a photo of a drag queen, a smiling mother and a petrified looking toddler: \u201cDQSH captures the imagination and play of the gender fluidity of childhood and gives kids glamorous, positive and unabashedly queer role models. In spaces like this, kids are able to see people who defy rigid gender restrictions and imagine a world where people can present as they wish, where dress-up is real.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">No child should be forced to confront radical ideas and controversial social movements before they are able to use the potty by themselves. We are talking about children who are settling in at the library to hear about Peppa Pig and Horton hearing a Who. This is a time when the little ones should be held in their mothers\u2019 laps, sipping chocolate milk or juice from their sippy cups as they become mesmerized by the magic of carefully chosen words.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">This is not a time when some man in spandex, tulle and glitter should be confusing them with the sight of a dude with an Adam\u2019s Apple and well-developed biceps touching up his makeup and hitching up his brassiere.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">There is a concerted effort afoot to normalize the whole idea of gender fluidity. Bryn Mawr College, my alma mater, has a guidebook containing approximately 70 different pronouns to be used when addressing strangers. Some school districts in Pennsylvania are allowing transgender students to use either the bathroom or locker room that accommodates their assumed \u201cgender identity.\u201d Sexual orientation and identity are the new buzzwords for \u201ctolerance\u201d and \u201cequality,\u201d and we are all supposed to fall in line and be as open-minded as Twitter will allow us to be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">All well and good, except when it comes to little children. No matter how evolved you want to be, no 3-year-old should have to figure out why the person who sounds like daddy but looks and smells like mommy is reading them a story about rainbows and unicorns. We might think it would wash right over their heads and that they would just enjoy hearing the stories. But if that\u2019s the case, why does the Drag Queen web page talk about teaching kids about people who \u201cdefy rigid gender restrictions?\u201d Clearly, there is some indoctrination going on here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Haverford Township Library, my hometown library, announced that in honor of Pride Month, it was going to host a \u201cDrag Queen Story Hour\u201d on Saturday, June 15. Some residents of the township seem happy enough with the idea. Phil Goldsmith, an old friend and former colleague who is the president of the board of the library, told me we\u2019re risking a very slippery slope if we start canceling events because of some opposition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cLast year was the first time we had Drag Queen Storytime. More than 200 children and parents attended the event, one of our largest events of the year. We had virtually no complaints either prior to the event or afterwards. I attended and was blown away by the enthusiasm of the children and parents,\u201d Goldsmith said. \u201cI don\u2019t expect everyone to agree with all of our choices \u2014 sometimes I don\u2019t \u2014 but I would hope that we can all agree that it is up to parents to decide what is appropriate for their children, not others.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Bill Lorraine, a physician and resident of Haverford Township, said he became very concerned when he first heard of Drag Queen Story Hour.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">\u201cGender dysphoria is a serious psychological condition. It is not genetically determined but rather is influenced by environmental factors,\u201d Lorraine said. \u201cTherefore exposing young children to something like drag queen story hour can predispose them to the development of gender dysphoria and the many negative consequences that go with it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Even though I sympathize with Bill, I also see Phil\u2019s point about wanting to celebrate diversity and be an open and tolerant community. But the rules are different when you are dealing with children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">A few years ago, when the Boy Scouts got into trouble with the city of Philadelphia for not accepting openly gay scouts, I wrote a bunch of columns about how adults should not impose their wishes and will on children. By that I mean that while it is all well and good to talk about tolerance and diversity and inclusion, we have to look deep into ourselves to determine if what we are doing is intended to help our kids, or to validate our own sense of worth as adults.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Reading the web page of Drag Queen Story Hour, it is clear that this whole program is designed to normalize gender fluidity and make \u201cdrag queens\u201d just one of many accepted expressions of our \u201cidentity.\u201d To me, that is nothing more than adults trying to shove their agendas down the throats of little kids.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Now, about those overdue library fees\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText Tagline\">Copyright 2019 Christine Flowers. Flowers is an attorney and a columnist for the Philadelphia Daily News, and can be reached at <a href=\"mailto:cflowers1961@gmail.com\">cflowers1961@gmail.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.postindependent.com\/opinion\/columns\/flowers-column-drag-queen-story-hour-comes-to-the-library\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: Post Independent<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Christine Flowers A friend emailed me recently asking if I\u2019d ever heard of \u201cDrag Queen Story Hour.\u201d At first, I thought it was something like Oprah\u2019s Book Club, only with better-dressed participants. But I did a little research, and realized that this was a \u201cthing\u201d that had been going on for a while across the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[160],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1311473","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-local-news"},"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-06-19 04:55:52","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KSKE Ski Country","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1311473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1311473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1311473\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1311473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1311473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/kske\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1311473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}