{"id":794787,"date":"2019-04-12T22:00:01","date_gmt":"2019-04-13T04:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.summitdaily.com\/news\/walking-our-faith-grace-found-in-a-glass-of-wine\/"},"modified":"2019-04-12T22:00:01","modified_gmt":"2019-04-13T04:00:01","slug":"walking-our-faith-grace-found-in-a-glass-of-wine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/local-news\/walking-our-faith-grace-found-in-a-glass-of-wine\/","title":{"rendered":"Walking Our Faith: Grace found in a glass of wine"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"465\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.summitdaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/04\/ColAnderson-SDN-041319.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-post-image\" alt srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.summitdaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/04\/ColAnderson-SDN-041319.jpg 620w, https:\/\/cdn.summitdaily.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/04\/ColAnderson-SDN-041319-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\"><\/figure>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText DropCap\">Our Lenten abstinence will end at the end of next week, but I\u2019m not so sure that I want to give up what I\u2019ve given up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">In past years, I\u2019ve given up things for Lent and mostly they seemed like silly efforts more inclined to dieting than religious observance. I\u2019ve also given things away, in fact that\u2019s how my winter scarf ministry started a year ago. That was a good thing to come from my Lenten observance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Nevertheless, I decided in March to give up my nightly intake of red wine and my nightly consumption of political talk shows. Both had become such a large part of my weeknights. At dinnertime, I\u2019d have the first glass of wine and listen to the first of my four-talk-show lineup. After dinner, it was knitting and another glass of wine and two more talk shows.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">It became worrisome when the second glass was followed by another \u201chalf,\u201d which became three. Never drunk or headachy the next morning, I was the frog in a slowly warming pan, developing a familiar tolerance. For this reason, I thought the absence of both would be a welcome break. But to be honest, I didn\u2019t think I\u2019d be successful.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">This week I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about grace. It\u2019s one of those words we hear a lot but because it\u2019s so familiar I don\u2019t think we consider its meaning. Yet, it\u2019s one of the most powerful words in our religious vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">I am speaking of God\u2019s grace. The unmerited favor God bestows upon each of us. To some, it\u2019s the equivalent of winning the lottery. And yes sometimes good things happen for no reason, and we can be grateful and thank God and that\u2019s good.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">But the unmerited favor I\u2019m thinking of as we enter into Holy Week and walk the well-worn path to the cross, is nothing less than God\u2019s love, which we could never earn. It is given so freely, not once, but every moment of every day no matter who we are or what we do, good or bad. Most perplexing, God loves the people we think he shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">And that\u2019s the problem. Most of the time what we notice sure doesn\u2019t look like grace. We don\u2019t like the grace that disappoints us, that answers our prayers not in the way we want, but in the way that is for our ultimate good. We want to win the lottery every time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">In our nightly phone call, Mom told me of a woman who had asked her to pray for her brother who was in the painful last stages of lung cancer. Mom prayed with the woman but later found out the man had died the very next day. Mom was devastated and felt her prayer had gone unheard and that she had let the woman down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Mom spent the next two days seeking an answer from God. What she received wasn\u2019t entirely satisfactory. She felt God told her that sometimes healing comes as an end to suffering. This is one of those answers which are most difficult to understand, especially when the answer means the loss of someone we love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Our walk of faith is often incomprehensible. Often that is the case when we notice, or don\u2019t, God\u2019s presence in the world. Why would the Creator of the Universe choose to be born of poor parents, live a tradesman\u2019s life, choose his apostles from the ill-literate working class, heal the destitute, feed the poor, save the adulterer from stoning and the tax collector from corruption? We want our heroes to be winners, not losers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">He was supposed to come as a king. He should have been dressed in the finest robes and spent his time in palaces with those who were smart and beautiful and rich. Instead he spent his few years with the least of us, allowed himself to be beaten, humiliated, and ultimately to suffer the most horrific death. Then he left us. As we look around, have things improved?<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">Grace is one of God\u2019s great mysteries. Why are we given what we could never earn? Why are our prayers sometimes answered in ways that only make sense years from now or never in our time on Earth?<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">I was mostly successful in abstaining from red wine and political talk. And I discovered I like myself better with the absence of both. So, they\u2019ll take a different place in my life going forward \u2014 special occasions rather than a nightly ritual.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText\">But this discovery wasn\u2019t the greatest gift. It was God\u2019s grace. I was certain I wouldn\u2019t abstain from wine and political talking heads for seven weeks. I\u2019ve tried in years past and failed within days. God showed me not only that I could, but my life would be happier as a result. Perhaps it\u2019s a small thing. But noticing God\u2019s grace is another step closer to him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"STND-STND BodyText Tagline\">Suzanne lives in Breckenridge. Her books can be found at Next Page Books and Nosh on Main Street, Frisco. You can reach her at <a href=\"mailto:suzanne@suzanneelizabeths.com\">suzanne@suzanneelizabeths.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.summitdaily.com\/opinion\/walking-our-faith-grace-found-in-a-glass-of-wine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">via:: Summit Daily<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our Lenten abstinence will end at the end of next week, but I\u2019m not so sure that I want to give up what I\u2019ve given up. In past years, I\u2019ve given up things for Lent and mostly they seemed like silly efforts more inclined to dieting than religious observance. I\u2019ve also given things away, in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[99],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-794787","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-local-news"},"acf":[],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-06-14 14:08:22","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"distributor_meta":false,"distributor_terms":false,"distributor_media":false,"distributor_original_site_name":"KSMT The Mountain","distributor_original_site_url":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt","push-errors":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/794787","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=794787"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/794787\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=794787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=794787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysmountaintime.com\/ksmt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=794787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}