By Neil Rosenthal Dear Dr. Rosenthal,
I have been living with this man for 18 months. Four months ago, I found a text on his phone asking for a sensual massage. I Googled the number and multiple ads popped up about guys asking for “happy ending” massages. When I confronted my partner, he admitted he likes getting a happy ending from other men every so often, but that he never touches them. But it turns out one of the men texted him confirming their reciprocal sexual experience. When confronted, my partner admitted that he is also sometimes sleeping with with these men.
I don’t know what to think about all of this. I am trying to be accepting and accommodating, but it’s causing me to have mood swings. I really don’t want to leave, but I don’t know what to do. If I ask him to stop, I fear he would just do this behind my back. Can you advise?
Signed,
My bloke is having sex with other blokes
Dear My Bloke,
Your boyfriend has lied to you, he clearly does not believe in monogamy or fidelity and you don’t trust him. But the worst part of your email is that you appear to have no voice in this …read more
Via:: Vail Daily Newspaper
